tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6614247118171115616.post538247448941050424..comments2023-08-04T09:49:48.622-05:00Comments on Found in Folsom: When do you scold your kids?Found In Folsomhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11381456888085332705noreply@blogger.comBlogger22125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6614247118171115616.post-66879198625290482732013-11-07T17:28:13.625-06:002013-11-07T17:28:13.625-06:00Yes, you are right. She never covered us or our mi...Yes, you are right. She never covered us or our mistakes. I do the same with my kids too. They are mad at me, but that is how I am. Welcome here, Ankita. Found In Folsomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11381456888085332705noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6614247118171115616.post-40837976649427202602013-10-26T23:23:36.710-05:002013-10-26T23:23:36.710-05:00nice post..you are right. What your mom did was ra...nice post..you are right. What your mom did was rather necessary to make kids understand the reality. Unlike other mothers, she did not provide a cover of fakeness. nice :)Ankitahttp://hummingwords.blogspot.in/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6614247118171115616.post-20227318915274431092013-08-27T19:02:21.576-05:002013-08-27T19:02:21.576-05:00Thank you for the kind words, Saru. My mom, hmm......Thank you for the kind words, Saru. My mom, hmm....she is one woman, I say :)Found In Folsomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11381456888085332705noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6614247118171115616.post-46881841704547874642013-08-27T19:01:22.188-05:002013-08-27T19:01:22.188-05:00This coming from an experienced mom like you, make...This coming from an experienced mom like you, makes me feel good, Renu. Reinforces that I am not in the wrong path :)Found In Folsomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11381456888085332705noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6614247118171115616.post-57905597775889534012013-08-27T15:00:27.663-05:002013-08-27T15:00:27.663-05:00You are right, we need to think before we act befo...You are right, we need to think before we act before kids as they might think something wrong, which can effect their thought process and growth. BTW, you mom is so like mine. Saru Singhalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12860642404643756746noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6614247118171115616.post-18066248084124585092013-08-27T03:59:38.508-05:002013-08-27T03:59:38.508-05:00The biggest mistake people make is overly protecti...The biggest mistake people make is overly protecting their kids and hiding their mistakes..I see it day in day out ..every mother feels that her child is perfect whereas rest are all not so, her child doesnt eat, whereas all others are eating a lot..all that..<br /><br />But what you sow, you reap, so all type of parenting. is done and results are accordingly only....Renuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18052079745061422542noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6614247118171115616.post-77448926799059892352013-08-24T08:57:37.044-05:002013-08-24T08:57:37.044-05:00I totally agree, Jaish. Such things are so sensiti...I totally agree, Jaish. Such things are so sensitive that they spoil the friendship between adults too. Only if adults were more mature and had a sense of understanding for the other kids, things would be simple.Found In Folsomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11381456888085332705noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6614247118171115616.post-3352074546365585312013-08-24T08:54:09.529-05:002013-08-24T08:54:09.529-05:00That is the whole point naa...They say, "Ahhh...That is the whole point naa...They say, "Ahhh...if something is there, we tell our kids, but we don't scold other kids". Doesn't make any sense to me. I would take the liberty to go ahead and reprimand both the kids..if the parents don't take it a sport, then they don't deserve to be my friends.Found In Folsomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11381456888085332705noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6614247118171115616.post-67661704410398616642013-08-24T08:52:42.999-05:002013-08-24T08:52:42.999-05:00Thank you for understanding, dear. Your agreeing t...Thank you for understanding, dear. Your agreeing to what I say means a lot to me.Found In Folsomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11381456888085332705noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6614247118171115616.post-19482523282365395202013-08-24T00:41:56.967-05:002013-08-24T00:41:56.967-05:00Everything you said made so much sense. I complete...Everything you said made so much sense. I completely agree, if we don't correct our kids, we are setting them wrong for life.Rachnahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02275266551382931603noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6614247118171115616.post-6904762645894819062013-08-23T03:37:49.217-05:002013-08-23T03:37:49.217-05:00It amazes me to see such 'different' paren...It amazes me to see such 'different' parenting styles. I would not hesitate in pointing out the wrong done whether it is my child or anybody else's. Right has to be appreciated and awareness about the wrong has to be brought in too. But there are so many parents who turn a blind eye towards such things.... it is their loss, I believe, sooner or later!Shilpa Garghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11016927627801620377noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6614247118171115616.post-89682578486673183112013-08-23T02:16:18.746-05:002013-08-23T02:16:18.746-05:00Its a thin line between not making a big fuss of s...Its a thin line between not making a big fuss of small childhood pleasures and turning a blind eye to things that need disciplining. There are situations when ignoring would be the best option coz kids who break up easily also make up easily. But if situations get out of hand , interference may be required.Jayashree Srivatsanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07187741357853447742noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6614247118171115616.post-23777583022001100102013-08-22T18:54:02.742-05:002013-08-22T18:54:02.742-05:00I understand, Amit. Moreover, some kids are so sup...I understand, Amit. Moreover, some kids are so super street smart and the parents don't see it at all..they think them as innocent babies who can't bite a finger in the mouth...Found In Folsomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11381456888085332705noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6614247118171115616.post-48611475846824537332013-08-22T18:51:43.704-05:002013-08-22T18:51:43.704-05:00Lcuky you, Rahul sir. Moreover, you have only one ...Lcuky you, Rahul sir. Moreover, you have only one girl I believe. It must have been lot easier for you :PFound In Folsomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11381456888085332705noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6614247118171115616.post-19056913785472048332013-08-22T18:50:32.828-05:002013-08-22T18:50:32.828-05:00I agree Usha ji. No beating..but condemn their in ...I agree Usha ji. No beating..but condemn their in appropriate behavior..that pisses me off..Found In Folsomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11381456888085332705noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6614247118171115616.post-71998956363234329952013-08-22T18:49:24.899-05:002013-08-22T18:49:24.899-05:00You are right aunty, rising up kids is like a rope...You are right aunty, rising up kids is like a rope walk these days. yeah, I saw a post from you that day..didn't read it yet..will do...thank u for all the warmth...lots of love and hugs to you too :-)Found In Folsomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11381456888085332705noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6614247118171115616.post-59388335852777237942013-08-22T08:12:33.183-05:002013-08-22T08:12:33.183-05:00I think a lot of parents are not worthy of being p...I think a lot of parents are not worthy of being parents. They are spoilt kids themselves who never grew up. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6614247118171115616.post-88284540653802623932013-08-22T05:47:41.992-05:002013-08-22T05:47:41.992-05:00Bringing up children is quite a challenge especial...Bringing up children is quite a challenge especially in the fast changing environment! The basic things like treating children with love and empathy and not saying nasty things in front of others are important. Anyway, have gone past that stage now:)Rahul Bhatiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09690287853990880735noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6614247118171115616.post-84216469954767474512013-08-21T04:14:18.866-05:002013-08-21T04:14:18.866-05:00Very thought provoking post. It is but natural tha...Very thought provoking post. It is but natural that we have to scold our children sometimes. I feel mild scolding at times is adequate to correct a child. But beating is no, no, and NO.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06682758228934966786noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6614247118171115616.post-36133062282555030612013-08-20T23:36:53.835-05:002013-08-20T23:36:53.835-05:00No doubt it is very tricky-when to scold & whe...No doubt it is very tricky-when to scold & when not to scold a child.Your post has brought up many memories of my kids' growing up years.<br />By a strange coincidence only an hour back i too published a post about disciplining children.I am waiting to see how young parents will react to it.<br />Love n hugs Latha.indu chhibberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17755152757229783585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6614247118171115616.post-70285668678485214432013-08-20T23:14:17.090-05:002013-08-20T23:14:17.090-05:00Thank you for being my first reader again :) Oh Go...Thank you for being my first reader again :) Oh God...you should cover them up with sofa covers each time wild kids like that come home :) Your son must be one sweet boy :)Found In Folsomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11381456888085332705noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6614247118171115616.post-68923255472807139862013-08-20T23:08:34.749-05:002013-08-20T23:08:34.749-05:00This is such a pertinent post. Yes, most parents a...This is such a pertinent post. Yes, most parents are blindfolded by their love. I don't believe in physical punishment but my stern look was enough for my son. When we went out to meet friends or in the presence of guests, we made sure that our kid behaved. And only yesterday we had guests with two little boys who messed up my sofa with Oreo biscuits. Sigh! Alka Gurhahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12050387590729571321noreply@blogger.com